I have something that I am working on, a book I'll go ahead and throw that out there. That book shares the title with this blog. Many of you grew up with a daddy. I did not. I learned a lot from just writing my story. It was a healing process for me. I have Bible verses throughout my book and tonight I want to share the first one with you. "Yet, O, Lord, you are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand." Isaiah 64:8 I have heard this verse periodically in my Christian life, but it didn't sink in until I did the homework for a Bible study. The first part of the verse clearly states that God is our Father. How is he our father? He created us but he also guides, protects, disciplines, and loves us. Now that is starting to sound like a father here on earth, right? That's because a father here on earth should follow the example of our Father in heaven. You may not feel his guidance, protection or love but he is there. You may only know his discipline or you may know nothing of God. You may be at a point in your life where you feel like God has abandoned you. Just remember he tells us he will never forsake us. We only need to draw near to him. "Come near to God and he will come near to you. Wash your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded." James 4:8 The second part of Isaiah 64:8 states that we are the clay and God is the potter. If you watch a potter make a jar or bowl from clay you will see that everything has to be just right. The amount of clay and water used has to be perfect. Too much water and the clay won't form. Too much clay and it'll become a clump. The speed the wheel is turning for the potter to mold the clay has to be just right too. If you go too fast the mold will lose shape but if you go too slow you won't be able to mold the clay. God knows just the right amount of water and clay to use to make us. He also knows how fast to spin the wheel to shape us. Every day God is shaping us and molding us into the person he wants us to be. The person that is created to glorify him. The next time you go through a trial just remember God is using it to mold you into the person he wants you to be. I am so thankful that I have a Father in heaven who loves, protects, guides and disciplines me all so I can rightfully be called his. You may not have a true father, or as we call them in the south, daddy, but you will always have a Father. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses taken from NIV Bible
Thursday, September 27, 2012
Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Missions/outreach
I want to start today off by saying that all my previous posts and ones from this day forward reflect only my thoughts. Most of my posts have been things that I struggle with. I do not intend to come off as preaching a sermon or as a Bible scholar. I have the schooling of neither a pastor or Biblical theologian. I pray before I write, ask for God's guidance, and pray after I write. I struggle just like everybody else, so when I'm writing, I am talking to myself and hopefully it's useful for you too.
Mission/Outreach has been on my heart pretty heavy lately. I have never been on a mission trip and would like to go on one. I would really like to start doing more mission work here in the town I live in. We are called as Christians, as the body of Christ, to do work for God. We need to get out there and see what needs are in our community and start meeting those needs. Not only can you help other Christians but you can help nonbelievers and through Christ bring them to know him as their savior. "Then he said to his disciples, "The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few." Matthew 9:37 I live in a small town, and I know there are a lot of people at home when I go to church. I can't say they are nonbelievers but I can say if they are then I need to be reaching them. I want all people to know the glory of God, I have been given a gift and I want to share it. There is a stirring in my heart to get started, get moving, but I often answer back how. I have thought of a few ideas and have shared with others including my pastor. I hope that if you have this same burning in your soul that you will do the same. James tells us in chapter two that we should be doing good deeds.
"14 What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? 15 Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food.16 If one of you says to him, "Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed," but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it?17 In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.18 But someone will say, "You have faith; I have deeds." Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do." James 2:14-18
I know God can and will do great things. The hard part is getting out of my comfort zone and moving on with what I know He is calling me to do. "Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me." John 14:1 I am taking this as, do not meditate on my feelings, instead trust in God. By trusting in God I am able to let go of my feelings and do great things for him. Starting today, I will step out of my comfort zone and start the works that God has called me to do. I want to challenge you to start something in your community. It may be small, that's ok, you can't expect to start big. As long as God is in what you're doing it will show and great things will come from it. So let's follow in the disciples footsteps: "The disciples went and did as Jesus had instructed them." Matthew 21:6 Will you step out of your comfort zone and find something you can do? Just listen to that small voice, and He will tell you where he wants you. Go, even if your friends aren't. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses taken from NIV Bible
Mission/Outreach has been on my heart pretty heavy lately. I have never been on a mission trip and would like to go on one. I would really like to start doing more mission work here in the town I live in. We are called as Christians, as the body of Christ, to do work for God. We need to get out there and see what needs are in our community and start meeting those needs. Not only can you help other Christians but you can help nonbelievers and through Christ bring them to know him as their savior. "Then he said to his disciples, "The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few." Matthew 9:37 I live in a small town, and I know there are a lot of people at home when I go to church. I can't say they are nonbelievers but I can say if they are then I need to be reaching them. I want all people to know the glory of God, I have been given a gift and I want to share it. There is a stirring in my heart to get started, get moving, but I often answer back how. I have thought of a few ideas and have shared with others including my pastor. I hope that if you have this same burning in your soul that you will do the same. James tells us in chapter two that we should be doing good deeds.
"14 What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? 15 Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food.16 If one of you says to him, "Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed," but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it?17 In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.18 But someone will say, "You have faith; I have deeds." Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do." James 2:14-18
I know God can and will do great things. The hard part is getting out of my comfort zone and moving on with what I know He is calling me to do. "Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me." John 14:1 I am taking this as, do not meditate on my feelings, instead trust in God. By trusting in God I am able to let go of my feelings and do great things for him. Starting today, I will step out of my comfort zone and start the works that God has called me to do. I want to challenge you to start something in your community. It may be small, that's ok, you can't expect to start big. As long as God is in what you're doing it will show and great things will come from it. So let's follow in the disciples footsteps: "The disciples went and did as Jesus had instructed them." Matthew 21:6 Will you step out of your comfort zone and find something you can do? Just listen to that small voice, and He will tell you where he wants you. Go, even if your friends aren't. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses taken from NIV Bible
Tuesday, September 25, 2012
Pew Pinchers
It is my belief that every church has at least one pew pincher. You know the person that has a pinched expression on their face Sunday morning that matches the pinched grip they have on the pew. This person's face is drawn up so tight you're afraid they will snap at you if you dare talk to them. The same person who sits hugged up against the pew, and you know not to ask if you can sit beside them. They don't dare stand up or leave their pew for fear of someone taking "their" spot. As someone who did not grow up in a church and slightly shy upon my first meeting you, I am intimidated by these people. They make people like me want to look for somewhere else to attend. There could be several reasons why someone does this. One, they are shy and prefer to be left alone. Two, they really don't want you sitting by them. Three, they don't realize they are coming off as a grumpy pew pincher.
"The entire law is summed up in a single command: "Love your neighbor as yourself." Galatians 5:14
For some strange reason Christians can love their neighbor all week long but you put them in church and they forget this command. If you sit by or around a pew pincher I want to challenge you to break the ice. Make it your goal to wipe the pinched look off their face. Wouldn't it be great if you even made them smile. But how, you ask? Take a look back at reason one, the pew pincher is shy. This person is not intentionally being rude but is afraid to speak to someone they don't know. Simply walk up to this person say good morning and extend a hand to shake or a hug to wrap them in. This will probably help calm their nerves. Look at pew pincher two, this person really wants to be left alone. You don't know their problems and they want to keep it that way. It's ok, if this person feels this way, but we are told to love our neighbor, so intentionally walk up to them extend your hand and say good morning. Pew pincher number three really doesn't mean to come off that way and probably doesn't know you see them as grumpy. Take the initiative and walk over to them, extend your hand and say good morning. Every time you see your pew pincher at church walk up to them and say hi. Eventually, they will let loose of the pew and they will smile when being greeted. Keep in mind you really don't know what's going on in some one's life, so try not to be critical of those around you, especially those pew pinchers in your congregation. The hardest thing to do is love someone when they least deserve it, but love might be the one thing they need. Let's start loving our neighbors even the ones that are hard to love. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
"The entire law is summed up in a single command: "Love your neighbor as yourself." Galatians 5:14
For some strange reason Christians can love their neighbor all week long but you put them in church and they forget this command. If you sit by or around a pew pincher I want to challenge you to break the ice. Make it your goal to wipe the pinched look off their face. Wouldn't it be great if you even made them smile. But how, you ask? Take a look back at reason one, the pew pincher is shy. This person is not intentionally being rude but is afraid to speak to someone they don't know. Simply walk up to this person say good morning and extend a hand to shake or a hug to wrap them in. This will probably help calm their nerves. Look at pew pincher two, this person really wants to be left alone. You don't know their problems and they want to keep it that way. It's ok, if this person feels this way, but we are told to love our neighbor, so intentionally walk up to them extend your hand and say good morning. Pew pincher number three really doesn't mean to come off that way and probably doesn't know you see them as grumpy. Take the initiative and walk over to them, extend your hand and say good morning. Every time you see your pew pincher at church walk up to them and say hi. Eventually, they will let loose of the pew and they will smile when being greeted. Keep in mind you really don't know what's going on in some one's life, so try not to be critical of those around you, especially those pew pinchers in your congregation. The hardest thing to do is love someone when they least deserve it, but love might be the one thing they need. Let's start loving our neighbors even the ones that are hard to love. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Monday, September 24, 2012
Church....why go?
Do you find yourself asking, why is it important to go to church? I did for a long time. I grew up knowing about God and Jesus but we did not attend church regularly. I was told that it doesn't matter if you go to church. The important thing is you believe in God. Even after I married, I struggled with why it was so important to go to church. I was still just a baby in my walk with Christ. I didn't see that every time I went to church I was getting fed. Getting fed what? I was learning about God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit. I was learning how to apply the Bible to my life, but it wasn't really sticking. Was this the churches fault? I would say partially, but most of the blame lies on me. The importance of going to church starts with learning about God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit but doesn't stop there. The people in the church should become people you fellowship with, not because you have to but because you want to. These people should hold you accountable in your walk and you in theirs. We are called as the body of Christ to do works for Him. "to prepare God's people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up" Ephesians 4:12 Dare I say the church, the body of Christ, is only as strong as it's weakest, least mature Christian? I bow my head in shame to say that up until a year ago, I was a weak link. "From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work." Ephesians 4:16 I wasn't a part of any fellowships with other Christians, and wasn't going to church as often as I should. I can sit here all afternoon and tell you how going to church changed me, but what I really want to get across to you is you should go to church. You are a Christian and the only way you can learn how to be the light of this world is to attend a church, but not just attend become involved. The more you attend church, the more you become involved the more you grow in your walk. So to answer my question,why go to church, you can't expect God to do great things in your life when you only let God in your life part time. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible Verses taken from NIV Bible
*Bible Verses taken from NIV Bible
Friday, September 21, 2012
Check Your Want to Gage
Good Afternoon. I've had a wonderful day playing with a sweet little girl. I was sitting here thinking and praying about what I should write about. Today I think I'll write about your want to. I know it doesn't sound Biblical and well for the most part it's not. I want to think about what your church is like? What do you gripe about every Sunday when you leave church? Is there some activities that you wish your church would have?
Let me tell you that I use to be the person who would complain about something that bothered me every Sunday. Then I realized, that wasn't very Christian like. The devil was having a field day with me and on Sundays of all days, because instead of focusing on the Sunday school lesson or the sermon I was searching for something to go wrong, something to not like. I didn't do this knowingly, nope, my subconscious was working overtime. Do you know what changed my heart? Realizing that every person in the church was going through something. We are all in church because we are sinners, we are sick, and in need of renewal. Do you know who changed my heart? You probably guessed, it wasn't my husband, it was Jesus. He started to show me the true importance of church. You make a choice to find something to complain about or something to brag about." Do everything without complaining or arguing," Philippians 2:14 Make the choice to find something to like about your church. May I suggest that instead of complaining because your church doesn't have something you feel they should have find out why they don't have it. Spend sometime in prayer, maybe God is showing you what he wants you to be a part of. He could be calling you to start a ministry or for you to talk to your Pastor about your concern. Open your heart and mind to what God wants for you and your church. We know he wants what's best for us. The best place for Christians is fellowship with other Christians...church, Sunday School, gatherings outside of the church, Bible studies. So it all goes back to your want to. Do you want to complain? Do you want to brag? Do you want to be involved in your church's ministries? Do you want to stay home? So, have you checked your want to gage lately? Are you on E, as in escape all things to do with being a Christian? Are you on F, as in full of the Holy Spirit and ready to move forward in your walk? Are you in the middle, some days you wish you could escape the confines of being the "good" Christian and some days you are walking with God faithfully? My friend check your want to, then spend some time in prayer. God will take you from E to F but you have to be willing. Be in His word daily and pray without ceasing. Your want to level will start being on F consistently. I hope you have a blessed weekend. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses from NIV Bible
Let me tell you that I use to be the person who would complain about something that bothered me every Sunday. Then I realized, that wasn't very Christian like. The devil was having a field day with me and on Sundays of all days, because instead of focusing on the Sunday school lesson or the sermon I was searching for something to go wrong, something to not like. I didn't do this knowingly, nope, my subconscious was working overtime. Do you know what changed my heart? Realizing that every person in the church was going through something. We are all in church because we are sinners, we are sick, and in need of renewal. Do you know who changed my heart? You probably guessed, it wasn't my husband, it was Jesus. He started to show me the true importance of church. You make a choice to find something to complain about or something to brag about." Do everything without complaining or arguing," Philippians 2:14 Make the choice to find something to like about your church. May I suggest that instead of complaining because your church doesn't have something you feel they should have find out why they don't have it. Spend sometime in prayer, maybe God is showing you what he wants you to be a part of. He could be calling you to start a ministry or for you to talk to your Pastor about your concern. Open your heart and mind to what God wants for you and your church. We know he wants what's best for us. The best place for Christians is fellowship with other Christians...church, Sunday School, gatherings outside of the church, Bible studies. So it all goes back to your want to. Do you want to complain? Do you want to brag? Do you want to be involved in your church's ministries? Do you want to stay home? So, have you checked your want to gage lately? Are you on E, as in escape all things to do with being a Christian? Are you on F, as in full of the Holy Spirit and ready to move forward in your walk? Are you in the middle, some days you wish you could escape the confines of being the "good" Christian and some days you are walking with God faithfully? My friend check your want to, then spend some time in prayer. God will take you from E to F but you have to be willing. Be in His word daily and pray without ceasing. Your want to level will start being on F consistently. I hope you have a blessed weekend. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses from NIV Bible
Thursday, September 20, 2012
What Can I Do?
"Defend the cause of the weak and fatherless; maintain the rights of the poor and oppressed." Psalm 82:3
Have you ever felt like you weren't doing enough? Maybe you are doing all you know to do and feel like this is all I can give. I often feel like I am not good enough or trained enough to help those in need. Then there are times that I think of something I would like to do but quickly shut myself down because I say there is already something like that. I have to remind myself that if God wants me to do it He will make sure I'm good enough or trained to help. Instead of worrying about not being good enough I need to focus on how I can help. We are all given gifts, and no one has the exact same gifts. "We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith." Romans 12:6 We need to spend time in prayer and ask God how can we use our gifts to glorify him. It is our job to help those with less than we have but it is also our job to make sure we are using our gifts the way God wants us to. Do not get discouraged if you are the only one wanting to do something. Try not to compare yourself to others, but instead look up to God. Set your eyes on him and follow His path for you. There will be times when you feel like someone else is better for the job or just as equally skilled at the task before you. Do not doubt that God wants you to be the one on the job or doing that task. There is a reason that you are the one doing the job or task and not someone else. More than I would like to say, I tell myself I can't give because I don't have enough for my family. We can always give our time or something besides money to help. Remember the lady who gave all she had. God blessed her and you know what, he will bless you too. "All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on." Luke 21:4 As the holiday season approaches and your heart turns more towards helping others, ask God to show you where he wants you. Once the season ends, keep seeking his guidance. Don't let your giving heart only last for a season, but for a lifetime. So today I am asking, God what can I do? Be patient, let him answer you and have courage to follow through. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses taken from NIV Bible
Have you ever felt like you weren't doing enough? Maybe you are doing all you know to do and feel like this is all I can give. I often feel like I am not good enough or trained enough to help those in need. Then there are times that I think of something I would like to do but quickly shut myself down because I say there is already something like that. I have to remind myself that if God wants me to do it He will make sure I'm good enough or trained to help. Instead of worrying about not being good enough I need to focus on how I can help. We are all given gifts, and no one has the exact same gifts. "We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith." Romans 12:6 We need to spend time in prayer and ask God how can we use our gifts to glorify him. It is our job to help those with less than we have but it is also our job to make sure we are using our gifts the way God wants us to. Do not get discouraged if you are the only one wanting to do something. Try not to compare yourself to others, but instead look up to God. Set your eyes on him and follow His path for you. There will be times when you feel like someone else is better for the job or just as equally skilled at the task before you. Do not doubt that God wants you to be the one on the job or doing that task. There is a reason that you are the one doing the job or task and not someone else. More than I would like to say, I tell myself I can't give because I don't have enough for my family. We can always give our time or something besides money to help. Remember the lady who gave all she had. God blessed her and you know what, he will bless you too. "All these people gave their gifts out of their wealth; but she out of her poverty put in all she had to live on." Luke 21:4 As the holiday season approaches and your heart turns more towards helping others, ask God to show you where he wants you. Once the season ends, keep seeking his guidance. Don't let your giving heart only last for a season, but for a lifetime. So today I am asking, God what can I do? Be patient, let him answer you and have courage to follow through. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses taken from NIV Bible
Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Are you Ashamed?
"After I strayed, I repented; after I came to understand, I beat my breast. I was ashamed and humiliated because I bore the disgrace of my youth." Jeremiah 31:19
Are you ashamed and humiliated of your youth? Maybe it's not your youth as in childhood but youth as a young adult. I am writing today because I have felt and sometimes still do feel ashamed of my past. Did you read the first part of Jeremiah 31:19? After I strayed, I repented. This is very important for all believers to remember something that we must all hold on to. The Bible tells us over and over if we repent we are forgiven. It even tells us we are blessed if our sins are forgiven. "Blessed is he whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered." Psalm 32:1 How can we be blessed from a messy past? How can God forgive you for not being faithful to him? It's simple, Jesus died on the cross to cover all of our sins. That my friend is why we are blessed even if we sin. We have to remember to ask for forgiveness but the second those words,"forgive me", comes out of our mouths, we are forgiven. When God sees you, he doesn't see all the bad but he does see a child that he loves. If you have accepted Jesus as your savior then his blood makes your sin whiter than snow. So do not be ashamed to talk of your past. Do not keep it from others when your testimony might help others. "So do not be ashamed to testify about our Lord, or ashamed of me his prisoner. But join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God," 2Timothy 1:8 Seek what good came from whatever it is you're ashamed of. What is so bad that God will not protect you? If you share your testimony, you are sharing how God has worked in your life. We are called to share the word and spread the good news. You may feel like you are the only person who has gone through a particular struggle, but when you start sharing you will find you are not alone. "But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you." Psalm 5:11 As you find refuge in the Lord, He will protect you. He and only He can give you the courage it takes to tell others something so hurtful that might cause them to change how they feel about you. As you go about your day today ask God if there is something you are ashamed of, and are afraid of sharing. We, as Christians, like to put on a show and say I'm good and pretend nothing bad has happened, is happening or will happen to us. The truth is if something hasn't happened, is not happening then it will happen. Don't hide in shame, turn to the Lord, he will walk you through it. Ask him to show you where you can help someone by sharing your testimony. "However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name." 1 Peter 4:16 Give God the praise, and keep looking to him. Don't let pride get in the way of showing others what God has brought you through. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses used from NIV
Are you ashamed and humiliated of your youth? Maybe it's not your youth as in childhood but youth as a young adult. I am writing today because I have felt and sometimes still do feel ashamed of my past. Did you read the first part of Jeremiah 31:19? After I strayed, I repented. This is very important for all believers to remember something that we must all hold on to. The Bible tells us over and over if we repent we are forgiven. It even tells us we are blessed if our sins are forgiven. "Blessed is he whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered." Psalm 32:1 How can we be blessed from a messy past? How can God forgive you for not being faithful to him? It's simple, Jesus died on the cross to cover all of our sins. That my friend is why we are blessed even if we sin. We have to remember to ask for forgiveness but the second those words,"forgive me", comes out of our mouths, we are forgiven. When God sees you, he doesn't see all the bad but he does see a child that he loves. If you have accepted Jesus as your savior then his blood makes your sin whiter than snow. So do not be ashamed to talk of your past. Do not keep it from others when your testimony might help others. "So do not be ashamed to testify about our Lord, or ashamed of me his prisoner. But join with me in suffering for the gospel, by the power of God," 2Timothy 1:8 Seek what good came from whatever it is you're ashamed of. What is so bad that God will not protect you? If you share your testimony, you are sharing how God has worked in your life. We are called to share the word and spread the good news. You may feel like you are the only person who has gone through a particular struggle, but when you start sharing you will find you are not alone. "But let all who take refuge in you be glad; let them ever sing for joy. Spread your protection over them, that those who love your name may rejoice in you." Psalm 5:11 As you find refuge in the Lord, He will protect you. He and only He can give you the courage it takes to tell others something so hurtful that might cause them to change how they feel about you. As you go about your day today ask God if there is something you are ashamed of, and are afraid of sharing. We, as Christians, like to put on a show and say I'm good and pretend nothing bad has happened, is happening or will happen to us. The truth is if something hasn't happened, is not happening then it will happen. Don't hide in shame, turn to the Lord, he will walk you through it. Ask him to show you where you can help someone by sharing your testimony. "However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name." 1 Peter 4:16 Give God the praise, and keep looking to him. Don't let pride get in the way of showing others what God has brought you through. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses used from NIV
Tuesday, September 18, 2012
Your Tongue
I'm sure we have all heard how important it is to hold our tongue and that you can really hurt someone with words. As kids we all use to say: "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me." I know I use to say it, but in all honesty the words do hurt. They may not break your bones but they can break your spirit. Those words can leave bruises so deep that I call them soul bruises. You know the hurt you had when you were a child and someone brings up or states it when you are grown. The pain that instantly throws you back to your childhood and leaves you wanting to run from it. Maybe it's not from your childhood, but a bad relationship. I have several soul bruises but through God's grace I am being healed. Words do hurt and that's why we are instructed as Christians to guard our tongues. "He who guards his mouth and his tongue keeps himself from calamity." Psalm 21:23 There are times we say things before we think, and we end up hurting someone. Other times we think about what we are going to say and know exactly how it will effect the other person, and rightfully so. You can be a "good" person and still have an untamed tongue. The tongue is a small part of the human body, but consider a rope tied to a tree and a swing. The rope seems to be small but you don't notice the fraying middle. As you start to swing the ropes starts unraveling, and the faster you swing the fast it unravels. The rope snaps and caused you to fall. You may not be hurt badly but you are stunned from the fall. Your tongue is the same, you can unravel a relationship with a few hurtful words all because you didn't take a moment to think. You are so worked up about something you speak faster and faster and unknowingly or maybe knowingly snap the rope that holds your relationship together. James tells us that the tongue may be small but how quickly does a small spark cause a forest fire? "Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark." James 3:5 We need to realize that we can not tame our tongues, but we can ask God to guide our words. "but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison." James 3:8 Instead of using our tongues to hurt others we need to use them to encourage others. The best way to guard your tongue is to stay in the word and sing God's praises. We need to speak what is rightful and true. We should keep from speaking lies and hurtful things just like the Psalmist says,"keep your tongue from evil and your lips from speaking lies." Psalm 34:13 There are times when we are being tested, especially by a loved one but we must keep in mind what we reply back can break them. We need to love others no matter how bad they hurt us. After all how often do we hurt God but still receive his blessings and love? For me, it's daily and I'm thankful that He loves me even when I hurt him. This is what I strive to show others around me but more importantly show my kids. I do not want to break them or cause soul bruises that they will have to deal with for the rest of their lives. My prayer for today is that I guard my tongue and speak of His righteousness. "My tongue will speak of your righteousness and of your praises all day long." Psalm 35:28 Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Bible verses are take from NIV Bible
*Bible verses are take from NIV Bible
Monday, September 17, 2012
Giving In
Good morning. I wrote this blog a few weeks ago but did not post it. I am in a Bible study learning about God and His divine intervention in Jonah's life so I thought I would share this with you today.
“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7
Have you been hurting recently? Are you holding on to past hurts? If so, God wants you to give in to your struggle, hurt, or burden by giving in to Him. Giving in is always the last thing we want to do. We don’t like giving in because we feel defeated. When we give in to God we are not defeated. God doesn’t want to see you hurt and struggling anymore. Grab your Father’s hand and let Him guide you. Remember the story of Jonah? When God told Jonah what he wanted him to do, Jonah ran the other way. Look where that got him; thrown into a violent sea for a whale to swallow him. Maybe you can relate. You have felt God’s tug on your heart to give in but you have been running away. You weren’t or are not ready to confront your hurt. Maybe you’re ready but afraid of the outcome. Let’s look at the beginning of Jonah’s prayer:
“He said: In my distress I called to the Lord, and he answered me. From deep in the realm of the dead I call for help, and you listened to my cry.” Jonah 2:2
Jonah knew he could die in the stomach of the whale. He cried out to God and gave in to His will. Maybe you are in the “depths of the sea” with the waters crashing over you. Are you possibly in the darkest pit of your life? Cry out to God, like Jonah did and He will deliver you. The only thing you need to do is give in. Give in to your hurt and let God begin to heal you. That’s right, I’m asking you to break down, cry and scream if needed. Pour your heart out to God. I can’t promise that the journey of healing your hurt will be easy; as a matter of fact it will be hard. I can promise that God will be with you the entire way. “Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life; you stretch out your hand against the anger of my foes, with your right hand you save me.” Psalm 138:7 When you give in and cry out to God you are taking the first step in the healing process. The first step is always uncertain, like a baby taking its first step, but soon you will see you are on solid ground. Pray to God, seek His will, and ask for His guidance. The healing will come and you will feel like a new person. You will feel like a new person because your faith is growing and you are submitting and relying on God. “In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5
When we give in to God great things will happen. Will you give in? Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Verses are taken from NIV Bible
“Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7
Have you been hurting recently? Are you holding on to past hurts? If so, God wants you to give in to your struggle, hurt, or burden by giving in to Him. Giving in is always the last thing we want to do. We don’t like giving in because we feel defeated. When we give in to God we are not defeated. God doesn’t want to see you hurt and struggling anymore. Grab your Father’s hand and let Him guide you. Remember the story of Jonah? When God told Jonah what he wanted him to do, Jonah ran the other way. Look where that got him; thrown into a violent sea for a whale to swallow him. Maybe you can relate. You have felt God’s tug on your heart to give in but you have been running away. You weren’t or are not ready to confront your hurt. Maybe you’re ready but afraid of the outcome. Let’s look at the beginning of Jonah’s prayer:
“He said: In my distress I called to the Lord, and he answered me. From deep in the realm of the dead I call for help, and you listened to my cry.” Jonah 2:2
Jonah knew he could die in the stomach of the whale. He cried out to God and gave in to His will. Maybe you are in the “depths of the sea” with the waters crashing over you. Are you possibly in the darkest pit of your life? Cry out to God, like Jonah did and He will deliver you. The only thing you need to do is give in. Give in to your hurt and let God begin to heal you. That’s right, I’m asking you to break down, cry and scream if needed. Pour your heart out to God. I can’t promise that the journey of healing your hurt will be easy; as a matter of fact it will be hard. I can promise that God will be with you the entire way. “Though I walk in the midst of trouble, you preserve my life; you stretch out your hand against the anger of my foes, with your right hand you save me.” Psalm 138:7 When you give in and cry out to God you are taking the first step in the healing process. The first step is always uncertain, like a baby taking its first step, but soon you will see you are on solid ground. Pray to God, seek His will, and ask for His guidance. The healing will come and you will feel like a new person. You will feel like a new person because your faith is growing and you are submitting and relying on God. “In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” Proverbs 3:5
When we give in to God great things will happen. Will you give in? Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*Verses are taken from NIV Bible
Friday, September 14, 2012
Deception
Good afternoon. I hope your day has been as blessed as mine. After talking about martyr yesterday I felt like God was telling me to write about deception today. No one likes to be deceived and unless someone is joking with you, it really hurts your feelings when it happens. Being deceived has a way of making you feel vulnerable, which no one likes. It gives you a sense of insecurity. So why do we deceive people? Is it to get what we most desire? How about just to make someone feel bad? The world is full of deception and we as Christians have to stay on guard. Deception goes all the way back to the beginning of time, to The Garden of Eden. We all know the story of the serpent, a.k.a. Satan; deceiving Eve. "Then the LORD God said to the woman, "What is this you have done?" The woman said, "The serpent deceived me, and I ate." Genesis 3:13 This one trick changed the course of our lives forever. It should come as no surprise when we are deceived by others. Our children learn real quick how to lie so they can stay out of trouble. It's human nature, it's the flesh, we are sinners at birth."Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child; children will rebel against their parents and have them put to death." Matthew 10:21 Jesus was talking to his disciples in the book of Matthew so they would know exactly what to expect of people. We as parents can only correct our children and teach them that it is wrong to deceive others. As they grow up we need to make them aware that people will deceive them.
Sadly, this world is turning away from God and therefore making it easier for a little deception to get you to the top of the ladder. It use to be if you worked hard you would get to the top of the ladder, but now you have to watch it because the person at the top may be the best deceiver, not the over achiever. "You live in the midst of deception; in their deceit they refuse to acknowledge me," declares the LORD" Jeremiah 9:6 There is not a lot that has changed from Jeremiah's time when it comes to deception. People are more creative than they use to be and will try to scam any person, but Christians seem to be an easy target. Don't fall prey to the deceivers of this world. Stand strong in your faith, help others as we have been commanded and let your light shine. Do not be discouraged or afraid of those who deceive but instead keep doing what you know is right. "When calamity comes, the wicked are brought down, but even in death the righteous have a refuge" Proverbs 14:32 Remember the wicked will pay for their wrong doings but that is for God to judge. We will have a place of refuge today, tomorrow and for eternity. Thank God the great deceiver has already been defeated, that happened when Jesus died and rose again. Don't let this world, as full of deception as it is, bring you down. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Sadly, this world is turning away from God and therefore making it easier for a little deception to get you to the top of the ladder. It use to be if you worked hard you would get to the top of the ladder, but now you have to watch it because the person at the top may be the best deceiver, not the over achiever. "You live in the midst of deception; in their deceit they refuse to acknowledge me," declares the LORD" Jeremiah 9:6 There is not a lot that has changed from Jeremiah's time when it comes to deception. People are more creative than they use to be and will try to scam any person, but Christians seem to be an easy target. Don't fall prey to the deceivers of this world. Stand strong in your faith, help others as we have been commanded and let your light shine. Do not be discouraged or afraid of those who deceive but instead keep doing what you know is right. "When calamity comes, the wicked are brought down, but even in death the righteous have a refuge" Proverbs 14:32 Remember the wicked will pay for their wrong doings but that is for God to judge. We will have a place of refuge today, tomorrow and for eternity. Thank God the great deceiver has already been defeated, that happened when Jesus died and rose again. Don't let this world, as full of deception as it is, bring you down. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Thursday, September 13, 2012
Martyr
I, like you, have heard the word martyr a lot. I have heard it in church and outside of church, but what exactly does it mean. I heard martyr used in a different way than what I am used to hearing it during Bible study and wanted to know more. I took a moment to look up the word on dictionary.com. I can give you the definition that I have heard in church but I want to be correct. I found four definitions but two stand out. The first definition of a martyr is a person who willingly suffers death rather than renounce his or her religion. When I think of this meaning, which I have heard in church, my mind turns to Stephen the first martyr of the church. "While they were stoning him, Stephen prayed, "Lord Jesus, receive my spirit." Acts 7:59 Stephen was a great leader of the church and follower of Jesus Christ. Stephen was accused of blasphemy and was stoned to death. He stood strong in his faith and belief that Jesus Christ is the son of God. Stephen did not back down even when he was pressured by others. He did not turn his back on God when they started stoning him. I pray that I will always stand strong in my faith and that I would not deny my Lord and savior, no matter the situation. I want to stand strong and be courageous like God told Joshua. "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go." Joshua 1:9 I, too, if ever faced with renouncing my God or face death want to be like Stephen and pray for those who persecute me and welcome my death knowing I will be received in heaven.
I do not want to be like the fourth definition I found of martyr. The fourth definition of martyr on dictionary.com says a person who seeks sympathy or attention by feigning or exaggerating pain, deprivation, etc. How different can this meaning be from the first? A martyr in this sense wants you to feel sorry for them for the pain they are going through. Not only do they want you to feel sorry for them but they exaggerate the pain so you will be sure to know how bad their pain or situation is and give sympathy. This definition reminds me of a child who learns that if they fall and cry someone will quickly come to them. So what does that child do they next time they want something or fall and want the attention of an adult? They start crying, how fast children learn these things surprises me, but adults do this too. There are people who want the negative in their life brought to every one's attention so they can get sympathy. Please hear me, I'm not saying that you shouldn't share your struggles. We are told to do so and to carry others burdens, but we are not to exaggerate what we are going through. Life is hard and we all go through hard times. We depend on others and others depend on us, that's why God gave us family and friends. This is not meant to judge, but instead to open my eyes and hopefully yours on what a martyr is. I didn't realize there are two definitions that were so different. As I go about my day I pray that I am like Stephen, a man; well woman in my case, full of faith. (Acts 6:5) Which definition of martyr do you want to be? Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
I do not want to be like the fourth definition I found of martyr. The fourth definition of martyr on dictionary.com says a person who seeks sympathy or attention by feigning or exaggerating pain, deprivation, etc. How different can this meaning be from the first? A martyr in this sense wants you to feel sorry for them for the pain they are going through. Not only do they want you to feel sorry for them but they exaggerate the pain so you will be sure to know how bad their pain or situation is and give sympathy. This definition reminds me of a child who learns that if they fall and cry someone will quickly come to them. So what does that child do they next time they want something or fall and want the attention of an adult? They start crying, how fast children learn these things surprises me, but adults do this too. There are people who want the negative in their life brought to every one's attention so they can get sympathy. Please hear me, I'm not saying that you shouldn't share your struggles. We are told to do so and to carry others burdens, but we are not to exaggerate what we are going through. Life is hard and we all go through hard times. We depend on others and others depend on us, that's why God gave us family and friends. This is not meant to judge, but instead to open my eyes and hopefully yours on what a martyr is. I didn't realize there are two definitions that were so different. As I go about my day I pray that I am like Stephen, a man; well woman in my case, full of faith. (Acts 6:5) Which definition of martyr do you want to be? Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Wednesday, September 12, 2012
Expectations
"And they exceeded our expectations: They gave themselves first of all to the Lord, and then by the will of God also to us." 2 Corinthians 8:5
Good morning to ya! I have been pondering on my expectations. Are my expectations set too high? Are they too high in general or am I picky about what I set high expectations to? I can say that I have high expectations of myself and my kids. I tell myself daily to always do what's right in the eyes of God. I expect my kids to be on their best behavior at school and out in public, and they should always do their best. Is that expecting too much? I don't think so, but when do I push the limit? What causes me to set high expectations and then become disappointed when they are not met?
I am undeniably the person who is told don't be so hard on yourself. But why shouldn't I be hard on myself? Is there anyone else that is going to set such a standard for me? Most likely not, well not a person here on earth. God has standards that I do my best to follow and that is where I set my high expectations. I do my best but I fail and it's not just once a week or month...it's more of how many times daily do I fail? I have good days and bad days, but the hard part is asking God to forgive me and move on. I can ask forgiveness but letting it go and moving on is hard for me. I like to sit there and beat myself up instead of accepting that God accepts me for who I am and knows my flaws. Moses comes to mind when I think of my flaws. "But Moses said, “Pardon your servant, Lord. Please send someone else.” Exodus 4:13 If Moses would have told God I can't do what you want me to do and never listened to the Lord after that, would we be sitting here today? I'm not sure, and I'm not going to try to answer that question, but what I am going to say is sometimes we hold ourselves up to high expectations and we fail. Other times we don't believe we can do anything. What we must remember is God will give you all you need to do His work. Even when we feel like He has picked the wrong person for the job, just trust in Him. The Bible verse from 2 Corinthians at the beginning of this post says they exceeded our expectations by giving themselves first to the Lord and then they were given to the people only by God's will. So, instead of going about your day saying I can do this or I can't do that. Give yourself to God and His will and the rest will fall into place. Don't set your expectations on what you feel can be accomplished but instead set your expectations on what God's will is for you. Today I am not going to be hard on myself, I will let it go and give it to God. I will strive to be in His will. I will expect Him to equip me for the job He has planned for me instead of saying send someone else. Will you do the same? Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Good morning to ya! I have been pondering on my expectations. Are my expectations set too high? Are they too high in general or am I picky about what I set high expectations to? I can say that I have high expectations of myself and my kids. I tell myself daily to always do what's right in the eyes of God. I expect my kids to be on their best behavior at school and out in public, and they should always do their best. Is that expecting too much? I don't think so, but when do I push the limit? What causes me to set high expectations and then become disappointed when they are not met?
I am undeniably the person who is told don't be so hard on yourself. But why shouldn't I be hard on myself? Is there anyone else that is going to set such a standard for me? Most likely not, well not a person here on earth. God has standards that I do my best to follow and that is where I set my high expectations. I do my best but I fail and it's not just once a week or month...it's more of how many times daily do I fail? I have good days and bad days, but the hard part is asking God to forgive me and move on. I can ask forgiveness but letting it go and moving on is hard for me. I like to sit there and beat myself up instead of accepting that God accepts me for who I am and knows my flaws. Moses comes to mind when I think of my flaws. "But Moses said, “Pardon your servant, Lord. Please send someone else.” Exodus 4:13 If Moses would have told God I can't do what you want me to do and never listened to the Lord after that, would we be sitting here today? I'm not sure, and I'm not going to try to answer that question, but what I am going to say is sometimes we hold ourselves up to high expectations and we fail. Other times we don't believe we can do anything. What we must remember is God will give you all you need to do His work. Even when we feel like He has picked the wrong person for the job, just trust in Him. The Bible verse from 2 Corinthians at the beginning of this post says they exceeded our expectations by giving themselves first to the Lord and then they were given to the people only by God's will. So, instead of going about your day saying I can do this or I can't do that. Give yourself to God and His will and the rest will fall into place. Don't set your expectations on what you feel can be accomplished but instead set your expectations on what God's will is for you. Today I am not going to be hard on myself, I will let it go and give it to God. I will strive to be in His will. I will expect Him to equip me for the job He has planned for me instead of saying send someone else. Will you do the same? Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
Which way, Lord?
"I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from?
My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth." Psalm 121:1-2
Good morning, I hope you had a blessed day yesterday and that today greets you with the warmth of the sun and the revival of life. Have you ever found yourself saying, ok Lord, I'm here ready and willing....which way now? That is where I am at right now. I'm sitting here asking which way now? It's hard to not want to answer it myself and start doing what I (the flesh) wants to do. I want to jump in and ask questions later. When what I need to do is ask questions first and then jump in. Think about it...when you are about to go swimming, don't you normally ask how's the water? What about building a house...don't you make plans? How about going on vacation...you don't just jump in the car and drive across country. You normally ask how much it's going to cost. There are things in life that you have to plan, but more importantly ask questions like how, when, where, who, and what for. Before you go swimming you ask how's the water so you know if you really want to swim in cold water. We don't just build a house and ask how many bedrooms after it's built. The vacation across country will take money. You need to know gas prices, hotels expenses, food expenses and have extra money to spend for souvenirs. So why is it when it comes to major decisions we want to jump in and ask God questions later? Probably because we think we can handle it, but the verse above tells us our help comes from the Lord. How different would our lives be if we sought God's help first, before jumping in and finding the water too cold or the vacation cut short for lack of money.
What if you are seeking God's help first and you are not getting an answer? This is where I am at...and the only thing I can tell you is be patient. I hear the small voice whispering I am answering you just give it time. God has a plan specifically made for you and another plan for me. Just because He doesn't give you an answer that bangs you over the head doesn't mean you will not get an answer. In fact, your answer is probably just around the corner. You may not know that God has given you an answer until you are much further down the road. There's a chance you will look back months or even years from now and see where God answered you but you didn't realize that was the answer. We, as children of God, should always seek Him in all we do. "let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance-" Proverbs 1:5 As you go through your journey here on earth and come to the cross roads that are inevitable please remember to ask which way, Lord. Don't get so caught up in the here and now that you forget to lift up your eyes. Seek Him and He will answer. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth." Psalm 121:1-2
Good morning, I hope you had a blessed day yesterday and that today greets you with the warmth of the sun and the revival of life. Have you ever found yourself saying, ok Lord, I'm here ready and willing....which way now? That is where I am at right now. I'm sitting here asking which way now? It's hard to not want to answer it myself and start doing what I (the flesh) wants to do. I want to jump in and ask questions later. When what I need to do is ask questions first and then jump in. Think about it...when you are about to go swimming, don't you normally ask how's the water? What about building a house...don't you make plans? How about going on vacation...you don't just jump in the car and drive across country. You normally ask how much it's going to cost. There are things in life that you have to plan, but more importantly ask questions like how, when, where, who, and what for. Before you go swimming you ask how's the water so you know if you really want to swim in cold water. We don't just build a house and ask how many bedrooms after it's built. The vacation across country will take money. You need to know gas prices, hotels expenses, food expenses and have extra money to spend for souvenirs. So why is it when it comes to major decisions we want to jump in and ask God questions later? Probably because we think we can handle it, but the verse above tells us our help comes from the Lord. How different would our lives be if we sought God's help first, before jumping in and finding the water too cold or the vacation cut short for lack of money.
What if you are seeking God's help first and you are not getting an answer? This is where I am at...and the only thing I can tell you is be patient. I hear the small voice whispering I am answering you just give it time. God has a plan specifically made for you and another plan for me. Just because He doesn't give you an answer that bangs you over the head doesn't mean you will not get an answer. In fact, your answer is probably just around the corner. You may not know that God has given you an answer until you are much further down the road. There's a chance you will look back months or even years from now and see where God answered you but you didn't realize that was the answer. We, as children of God, should always seek Him in all we do. "let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance-" Proverbs 1:5 As you go through your journey here on earth and come to the cross roads that are inevitable please remember to ask which way, Lord. Don't get so caught up in the here and now that you forget to lift up your eyes. Seek Him and He will answer. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Monday, September 10, 2012
Temptation
"After finishing every temptation, the devil departed from him until the next opportune time." Luke 4:13
Good morning, and blessings to you. I hope you had a wonderful weekend. I did and we are blessed with cooler weather here in Texas. I am so thankful for that. Yesterday I was outside studying the Bible; enjoying the cool air on my front porch, when I came across the verse above, Luke 4:13. I have heard this verse and I've read it several times before. I had an "aha" moment though and I want to share it with you today.
We have heard and read numerous times that Jesus was tempted by the devil when he went into the wilderness to pray. He fasted for forty days and nights. We see that the devil wanted Jesus to use his powers to turn stone into bread, praise him, and to jump from the highest temple and have the angels save Him. The rebuttal Jesus gave the devil every time was scripture. The same scripture we have today to battle the devil. Throughout the Bible we are told to pray, and to stay alert because Satan is ready to attack. 1 Peter 5:8 says, "Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour." We can never assume that we are safe from the devil to tempt us. The last part of Luke 4:13 was my "aha" moment. I'm sure I have heard it over and over but it didn't sink in until yesterday afternoon. It says that the devil left Jesus alone until the next opportunity. So, if I read that correctly, that means the devil was planning on tempting Jesus again. If the devil was that set on tempting the son of God, the only perfect human to walk this earth, then why in the world would I ever think the devil will eventually leave me alone. He will leave me alone as long as I keep turning to God, but it's a guarantee he will come back to tempt me. That is why it is important to be alert, not because the devil might tempt you but because he is waiting for the most opportune time to tempt you. He sees you struggling and growing weak in your faith. He knows when you are slipping and are about to fall. That's when he will pounce on you. The devil does not like us to pray. He will convince you that you don't need to pray. He does not like you to go to church. He will try to convince you that you don't need to go to church. He does not like you to go to Bible studies. He will try to convince you that they are not important. The devil does not want you to fellowship with other Christians, and he will convince you otherwise. That my friends is why we need to ,"watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak." Matthew 26:41 As you start your week be alert and watch for these things, and remember this verse: "No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way so that you can endure it." 1 Corinthians 10:13 Jesus knows what you struggle with, turn your struggles over to him before the devil uses them against you. He's waiting and will tempt you today, tomorrow or next month but keep praying and turning to God. Until next time may God Bless and Keep you.
* Bible verses used are from NIV
Good morning, and blessings to you. I hope you had a wonderful weekend. I did and we are blessed with cooler weather here in Texas. I am so thankful for that. Yesterday I was outside studying the Bible; enjoying the cool air on my front porch, when I came across the verse above, Luke 4:13. I have heard this verse and I've read it several times before. I had an "aha" moment though and I want to share it with you today.
We have heard and read numerous times that Jesus was tempted by the devil when he went into the wilderness to pray. He fasted for forty days and nights. We see that the devil wanted Jesus to use his powers to turn stone into bread, praise him, and to jump from the highest temple and have the angels save Him. The rebuttal Jesus gave the devil every time was scripture. The same scripture we have today to battle the devil. Throughout the Bible we are told to pray, and to stay alert because Satan is ready to attack. 1 Peter 5:8 says, "Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour." We can never assume that we are safe from the devil to tempt us. The last part of Luke 4:13 was my "aha" moment. I'm sure I have heard it over and over but it didn't sink in until yesterday afternoon. It says that the devil left Jesus alone until the next opportunity. So, if I read that correctly, that means the devil was planning on tempting Jesus again. If the devil was that set on tempting the son of God, the only perfect human to walk this earth, then why in the world would I ever think the devil will eventually leave me alone. He will leave me alone as long as I keep turning to God, but it's a guarantee he will come back to tempt me. That is why it is important to be alert, not because the devil might tempt you but because he is waiting for the most opportune time to tempt you. He sees you struggling and growing weak in your faith. He knows when you are slipping and are about to fall. That's when he will pounce on you. The devil does not like us to pray. He will convince you that you don't need to pray. He does not like you to go to church. He will try to convince you that you don't need to go to church. He does not like you to go to Bible studies. He will try to convince you that they are not important. The devil does not want you to fellowship with other Christians, and he will convince you otherwise. That my friends is why we need to ,"watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak." Matthew 26:41 As you start your week be alert and watch for these things, and remember this verse: "No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way so that you can endure it." 1 Corinthians 10:13 Jesus knows what you struggle with, turn your struggles over to him before the devil uses them against you. He's waiting and will tempt you today, tomorrow or next month but keep praying and turning to God. Until next time may God Bless and Keep you.
* Bible verses used are from NIV
Friday, September 7, 2012
Patience
"The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride." Ecclesiastes 7:8
I have stated that patience is not my virtue. It never has been and hopefully some day I can say that I am patient but today is not that day. The verse written above tells me that the end is better than the beginning and maybe that's why I'm not good at waiting. I know the end is better and that's why I want to know now. If we wait on the Lord and his timing the end will be much better than what we ever dreamed it would be. So why is it that I can't wait without getting tired of waiting or frustrated that I don't already have an answer? The only answer I have is because I like to plan everything which also means I like to have control. I am very aware that I really have no control of my life but God does. There are a lot of things in my life right now that I'm trying to be patient about and see what God has in store for me, but boy it's hard. I know God's timing is always better than mine. I find myself praying for God to show me what he wants my next step to be but I don't want to wait. I keep praying for his will and his timing though. I am slowly learning to just keep giving it to God and your answer will eventually be given. The end product will be revealed.
Look at the last part of this verse though. It says that patience is better than pride. How often are we impatient because we are prideful? You want something done now because it's better for you. What about doing something before it really needed to be done, so you can get the kudos? Sometimes when we are impatient our pride is taking over. The next time you are in a hurry to get an answer or doing something stop and ask yourself if pride is the cause of your impatience. I am striving to let go of my pride and impatience. I want to be like this verse in Galatians: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness," Galatians 5:22
I want to show love, joy,peace, patience, kindness, goodness, and faithfulness to all those that my life touches. I want to be fruitful and let my light shine. I hope you will join me today in asking God to help you be patient. Whether it is dealing with kids, spouse, family, folks you don't know, what to do next, or a decision that needs an answer. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*All Bible verse are from NIV.
I have stated that patience is not my virtue. It never has been and hopefully some day I can say that I am patient but today is not that day. The verse written above tells me that the end is better than the beginning and maybe that's why I'm not good at waiting. I know the end is better and that's why I want to know now. If we wait on the Lord and his timing the end will be much better than what we ever dreamed it would be. So why is it that I can't wait without getting tired of waiting or frustrated that I don't already have an answer? The only answer I have is because I like to plan everything which also means I like to have control. I am very aware that I really have no control of my life but God does. There are a lot of things in my life right now that I'm trying to be patient about and see what God has in store for me, but boy it's hard. I know God's timing is always better than mine. I find myself praying for God to show me what he wants my next step to be but I don't want to wait. I keep praying for his will and his timing though. I am slowly learning to just keep giving it to God and your answer will eventually be given. The end product will be revealed.
Look at the last part of this verse though. It says that patience is better than pride. How often are we impatient because we are prideful? You want something done now because it's better for you. What about doing something before it really needed to be done, so you can get the kudos? Sometimes when we are impatient our pride is taking over. The next time you are in a hurry to get an answer or doing something stop and ask yourself if pride is the cause of your impatience. I am striving to let go of my pride and impatience. I want to be like this verse in Galatians: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness," Galatians 5:22
I want to show love, joy,peace, patience, kindness, goodness, and faithfulness to all those that my life touches. I want to be fruitful and let my light shine. I hope you will join me today in asking God to help you be patient. Whether it is dealing with kids, spouse, family, folks you don't know, what to do next, or a decision that needs an answer. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
*All Bible verse are from NIV.
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Slipping
"Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be men of courage; be strong." 1 Corinthians 16:13
We are told to stand guard and to watch for temptations. The devil is always trying to catch you in a trap and turn you away from God. The day you were saved you felt like nothing could come between you and God. There wasn't a thing out there that would turn you from Him. There was not a thought in your head that day of what's going to happen in my future that may change how I feel today. This is great, but at some point you will slip. It could be a slip and a fall and you're back up or it could be just a slip. There are events in our life that change our hearts. This is when it is important to stand firm and be strong in your faith.
When we take off our old self and put on the new (day you are baptized) you are to let go of your past and all things you did as a sinner. "You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;: Ephesians 4:22 It doesn't state that this will happen over night nor does it say that you should leave some of the old things and take on only some new things. This is a process that takes time...a lifetime. You are and always will be battling temptations to do things like you use to. I find that when I start slipping I am not in the Word like I should be. I don't like to admit it but I slip from time to time. Sometimes a whole lot more than what I want anyone to know. I tend to start slipping when I am not attending a Bible study or when I don't take the time to pray and read like I should. Just like a sin is a sin well a slip is a slip. You have to ask forgiveness and turn away from it and keep going. If you don't you can find yourself at the bottom of the slippery slope and wondering how you got there. You will always have a battle within you. There will be days that the battle seems like it doesn't exist and then there will be days that you have a full blown war going on. In the book of James he gives a little explanation, "What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you?" James 4:1 Stop and think about when you start slipping. What is going on in your life? Is it your old self wanting your attention? Could it be the lack of attention you are giving God? The only way to keep the battle as calm as possible is to seek God. Most likely it's both. The struggle of letting go of the old is hard especially when we aren't talking to God. Don't only ask God about the big things going on in your life but talk to him about the little things too. One little slip can lead to a fall and a fall could land you in the deepest darkest pit of your life. When you start slipping, as I have and do, call on God. Ask him to forgive you and set you straight. My friend, you are not alone, everyone slips, but those who cry out are the ones who catch their balance and keep walking. No one is perfect, except God, so admit your mistakes, remember to cloth yourself daily in Christ and keep walking. Hold on tight and you will find he is holding you tighter. We are told to draw near to God in Hebrews, "let us draw near to God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water." Hebrews 10:22 Please do not be discouraged if you are slipping or have slipped. We all slip and fall short daily. I ask that you remember God can and will see you through. Just turn to him, stick out your hand and let him take care of the rest. God will meet you where you are and accepts you for who you are today not the person you were or the person you will become. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
We are told to stand guard and to watch for temptations. The devil is always trying to catch you in a trap and turn you away from God. The day you were saved you felt like nothing could come between you and God. There wasn't a thing out there that would turn you from Him. There was not a thought in your head that day of what's going to happen in my future that may change how I feel today. This is great, but at some point you will slip. It could be a slip and a fall and you're back up or it could be just a slip. There are events in our life that change our hearts. This is when it is important to stand firm and be strong in your faith.
When we take off our old self and put on the new (day you are baptized) you are to let go of your past and all things you did as a sinner. "You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;: Ephesians 4:22 It doesn't state that this will happen over night nor does it say that you should leave some of the old things and take on only some new things. This is a process that takes time...a lifetime. You are and always will be battling temptations to do things like you use to. I find that when I start slipping I am not in the Word like I should be. I don't like to admit it but I slip from time to time. Sometimes a whole lot more than what I want anyone to know. I tend to start slipping when I am not attending a Bible study or when I don't take the time to pray and read like I should. Just like a sin is a sin well a slip is a slip. You have to ask forgiveness and turn away from it and keep going. If you don't you can find yourself at the bottom of the slippery slope and wondering how you got there. You will always have a battle within you. There will be days that the battle seems like it doesn't exist and then there will be days that you have a full blown war going on. In the book of James he gives a little explanation, "What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you?" James 4:1 Stop and think about when you start slipping. What is going on in your life? Is it your old self wanting your attention? Could it be the lack of attention you are giving God? The only way to keep the battle as calm as possible is to seek God. Most likely it's both. The struggle of letting go of the old is hard especially when we aren't talking to God. Don't only ask God about the big things going on in your life but talk to him about the little things too. One little slip can lead to a fall and a fall could land you in the deepest darkest pit of your life. When you start slipping, as I have and do, call on God. Ask him to forgive you and set you straight. My friend, you are not alone, everyone slips, but those who cry out are the ones who catch their balance and keep walking. No one is perfect, except God, so admit your mistakes, remember to cloth yourself daily in Christ and keep walking. Hold on tight and you will find he is holding you tighter. We are told to draw near to God in Hebrews, "let us draw near to God with a sincere heart in full assurance of faith, having our hearts sprinkled to cleanse us from a guilty conscience and having our bodies washed with pure water." Hebrews 10:22 Please do not be discouraged if you are slipping or have slipped. We all slip and fall short daily. I ask that you remember God can and will see you through. Just turn to him, stick out your hand and let him take care of the rest. God will meet you where you are and accepts you for who you are today not the person you were or the person you will become. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Wednesday, September 5, 2012
Mercy
What is mercy? Can we show, give or receive mercy? Why is it important for me, as a Christian, to show mercy?
I looked up the definition of mercy on dictionary.com and I found two definitions that helped me understand what it means. Mercy is being compassionate or kind to another person. It even says compassionate or kind to an enemy. Wow, a little bit of a moral there? I just answered the first question and yes we can show, give and receive mercy. So why is it important to show mercy? Lets take a look. In Zechariah 7:9 we read, "This is what the Lord Almighty says: Administer true justice; show mercy and compassion to one another." This alone should be enough to show it's importance, because God says we should show mercy. When you live a life that shows you fear God and want to obey him you show mercy, often times without thinking about it. The importance of showing your mercy lies directly in your faith and walk with God. I feel there are different levels of kindness. Just smiling and waving at someone is showing mercy, you are being kind. I think we should take our mercy to a different level though. I'm pretty sure we aren't off the hook by smiling. No, God calls us to show mercy to the poor. "A generous man will himself be blessed, for he shares his food with the poor." Proverbs 22:9 Throughout Psalm and Proverbs you can find where it says if you show mercy to the poor you will be blessed. I don't know about you but I would love to be blessed. By showing mercy to those that are not as fortunate as you, you will be blessed. The feeling of satisfaction is overwhelming when you give to someone who can not give back. It is not easy to always show or give mercy. As you go about your day ask God to give you His eyes, to remind you of the mercy He has shown you. So you can see those people who need to be shown mercy (and not just a smile :) ) Ask him to give you the courage to act and not say to yourself someone else will do it. Listen to God's nudge to show mercy, remember nothing is to big or small when you place it in God's hands. This world is hard enough to live in without people who show mercy. Today let's live by this, " Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience." Colossians 3:12 Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
I looked up the definition of mercy on dictionary.com and I found two definitions that helped me understand what it means. Mercy is being compassionate or kind to another person. It even says compassionate or kind to an enemy. Wow, a little bit of a moral there? I just answered the first question and yes we can show, give and receive mercy. So why is it important to show mercy? Lets take a look. In Zechariah 7:9 we read, "This is what the Lord Almighty says: Administer true justice; show mercy and compassion to one another." This alone should be enough to show it's importance, because God says we should show mercy. When you live a life that shows you fear God and want to obey him you show mercy, often times without thinking about it. The importance of showing your mercy lies directly in your faith and walk with God. I feel there are different levels of kindness. Just smiling and waving at someone is showing mercy, you are being kind. I think we should take our mercy to a different level though. I'm pretty sure we aren't off the hook by smiling. No, God calls us to show mercy to the poor. "A generous man will himself be blessed, for he shares his food with the poor." Proverbs 22:9 Throughout Psalm and Proverbs you can find where it says if you show mercy to the poor you will be blessed. I don't know about you but I would love to be blessed. By showing mercy to those that are not as fortunate as you, you will be blessed. The feeling of satisfaction is overwhelming when you give to someone who can not give back. It is not easy to always show or give mercy. As you go about your day ask God to give you His eyes, to remind you of the mercy He has shown you. So you can see those people who need to be shown mercy (and not just a smile :) ) Ask him to give you the courage to act and not say to yourself someone else will do it. Listen to God's nudge to show mercy, remember nothing is to big or small when you place it in God's hands. This world is hard enough to live in without people who show mercy. Today let's live by this, " Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience." Colossians 3:12 Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
Tuesday, September 4, 2012
Your Walk
Good Morning. I hope you had a wonderful Labor Day weekend. I enjoyed mine. My family and I went to my mom's deer lease and helped her and my uncle clean the camp up. This morning I am going to write about your walk. Not the way you take steps to get down the hall or to your car, no your walk that shows your faith. It is getting harder and harder to walk in the light. The world is pushing us to take on their values and to set aside God and his commandments. The only way we can keep our walk worthy is to stay in the light. "Come, O house of Jacob, let us walk in the light of the LORD." Isaiah 2:5 We have heard that Jesus is the light. He can keep you from walking in darkness. When you walk with Jesus daily you should feel more at peace than when you don't walk with him daily. What exactly does it mean to walk with Jesus and why is it important that I walk with him?
The word walk is an action word. Thus that means we have to do something in order to walk with Jesus. We can't just say I believe and be done. We as Christians should spend time with Jesus daily. To walk with Jesus you need to read His word, the Bible, pray and give thanks to him, find a place to worship Him and fellowship with fellow Christians. All of these acts are important for your walk. When you spend time reading the Bible you learn how you should live your life. You learn how to walk with Jesus but more importantly you learn about Jesus. You are building a relationship with the best friend you will ever have. When you pray and ask for forgiveness for your short comings God forgives you. When you pray and thank Him for your blessings you are letting him know you appreciate Him. As you pray and intercede for family, friends, and even those you don't know you are growing your relationship with God. He knows your heart and there is no better way to grow a relationship than to talk and prayer is exactly that. You are talking to God when you pray. Many people limit their worship to Sundays. You can worship God everyday in everything you do. By doing it without complaining. "Do everything without complaining or arguing," Philippians 2:14 Sundays are a great time to learn more about God and worship him and give thanks for all he has done. Just remember your walk doesn't start Sunday morning and end Sunday night. Your walk is 24/7/365. People are watching you even when you don't think they are. Especially when you proclaim loudly I am His! The last thing and certainly not the least is your fellowship with other Christians. Remember we need to walk with other Christians. This helps strengthen our walk because we our held accountable but also these friends have the same values as we do. "Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul." 1 Peter 2:11 God gives us friends to help us in our walk, to get us through trials and to strengthen us. He will use them to break you down and hold you accountable. You need to spend time with other Christians so they can help you. We are to carry each others burdens. "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Galatians 6:2 Your friends can pray for you and talk to you in all things that come your way. So, my friends, don't look at others and find their walk is too slow or dark. Instead look at your walk and see how bright your light is. What action can you take to improve or sturdy your walk? Don't beat yourself up instead be thankful you are walking with Him and strive to improve. That's all any of us can do. Each person's walk will be different, learn from each other but more importantly learn from Him. "Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, O LORD" Psalm 89:15 Keep your light shining....walk with Him daily. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
The word walk is an action word. Thus that means we have to do something in order to walk with Jesus. We can't just say I believe and be done. We as Christians should spend time with Jesus daily. To walk with Jesus you need to read His word, the Bible, pray and give thanks to him, find a place to worship Him and fellowship with fellow Christians. All of these acts are important for your walk. When you spend time reading the Bible you learn how you should live your life. You learn how to walk with Jesus but more importantly you learn about Jesus. You are building a relationship with the best friend you will ever have. When you pray and ask for forgiveness for your short comings God forgives you. When you pray and thank Him for your blessings you are letting him know you appreciate Him. As you pray and intercede for family, friends, and even those you don't know you are growing your relationship with God. He knows your heart and there is no better way to grow a relationship than to talk and prayer is exactly that. You are talking to God when you pray. Many people limit their worship to Sundays. You can worship God everyday in everything you do. By doing it without complaining. "Do everything without complaining or arguing," Philippians 2:14 Sundays are a great time to learn more about God and worship him and give thanks for all he has done. Just remember your walk doesn't start Sunday morning and end Sunday night. Your walk is 24/7/365. People are watching you even when you don't think they are. Especially when you proclaim loudly I am His! The last thing and certainly not the least is your fellowship with other Christians. Remember we need to walk with other Christians. This helps strengthen our walk because we our held accountable but also these friends have the same values as we do. "Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul." 1 Peter 2:11 God gives us friends to help us in our walk, to get us through trials and to strengthen us. He will use them to break you down and hold you accountable. You need to spend time with other Christians so they can help you. We are to carry each others burdens. "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Galatians 6:2 Your friends can pray for you and talk to you in all things that come your way. So, my friends, don't look at others and find their walk is too slow or dark. Instead look at your walk and see how bright your light is. What action can you take to improve or sturdy your walk? Don't beat yourself up instead be thankful you are walking with Him and strive to improve. That's all any of us can do. Each person's walk will be different, learn from each other but more importantly learn from Him. "Blessed are those who have learned to acclaim you, who walk in the light of your presence, O LORD" Psalm 89:15 Keep your light shining....walk with Him daily. Until next time may God Bless you and Keep you.
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